I feel the pain. I know if you are here right now you are probably in a great deal of heart ache and pain. You already know how hard it is to just even wake up and roll out of bed in the morning. And if that isn’t bad enough, you have to cope with the loss of friends and family that are on “their side”.

When a storm strikes, disaster hits, or anything that’s just plain bad happens, there will always be signs of warning. It’s certainly a cliche to hear people say: “why didn’t we listen to the warning signs”. This is true of bridge collapses, storms, political events, and of couples breaking up.

Every break up is a kind of death - you remain with pain, the sense of loss and memories of your ex which you should leave behind. However, it’s not that easy.

It seems that we need to lose something before we can truly appreciate it. There may be quite a few annoyances about your girl that might cause you to think about living without her. Relationships can degenerate to a point where the smallest thing triggers the same old arguments.

If you’ve just gotten divorced, you’re probably still reeling after the fact It’s an emotional roller coaster like no other, and it’ll take a while to get over it